紫雨欢迎以下的人主动向我提出交换链接：
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有志于，或正在进行网上创业的个人博客
- 专门研究、更新关于网上创业这个主题的个人博客
有兴趣的人请留下你的个人资料，并在下面跟帖。务必要提供一个完整介绍，关于你创业的计划与背景，你处在创业的什么阶段，你的创业愿景是什么。我会去你的博客观看，如果觉得我们之间共振和鸣的话，我会加上你的链接。
怎样才是一位好的导师或治疗师？ 四月 17, 2006
Abraham-Hicks : Message: Cruise notes part 5:
The ideal mentor, therapist, teacher:
1. has the willingness to – in your awareness of where your client is – feel no judgement about where they are.
2. Willing to allow them to take as long as they need to move from where they are and even allow them not to move from where they are at all and be OK about that.
Technorati : therapist
无条件的爱是什么？好处是什么？ 四月 14, 2006
Abraham-Hicks : Message: Final segment of cruise notes, Carribean!:
“I love the feeling of loving you. I don’t care if you love me or not.” And when you get there, the Universe will line you up with all those who are a match to loving!
无条件的爱就是不管你爱不爱我，我都依然爱你。不是因为我伟大，而是因为我是如此的自私，以至于我要让自己在任何的情况之下都能够享受到让爱流经的感觉……因为让爱流经的感觉真好！
好处就是：我不但在任何情况之下都感觉很好，而且凡是与这频率共振的人都会被吸引过来，过来爱我！
我们真正想要经验的是：让爱流经我（爱与被爱） 四月 14, 2006
Abraham-Hicks : Message: Final segment of cruise notes, Carribean!:
12.. Seek incremental improvement, there is no such thing as a quantum leap. Perceive the world through a self that loves. The only hindrance to self love is coming yourself and what you want with others and what they want. Loving yourself is not giving a rip what others think. Train yourself to look for something that feels better, one step at a time.
13.. When another loves you, and teaches you love, they are a match to their Inner Being, and they flood pure positive energy all over you. Then you *need* them to attend to you to feel good, and they will let you down every time.
14.. It feels good to BE loved, but nothing feels better in all the Universe than to love. Fascination is the same vibration as love. Appreciation is the same vibration as love. As you appreciate, we join you in your appreciation. You’d have no feeling at all without your relationship to Source.
15.. When you look outside yourself for love, you try to find connected ones. Then you look and don’t find them connected, and you train yourself to NOT love yourself through their eyes.
16.. Love this rug and these flowers and this fresh air and this ship and your dinner, and this hair clip and spent time watching how flexible your fingers are. Tune yourself to the easy and obvious things to love and appreciate. Tune into things moment after moment that are easiest to love.
17.. The hardest one to love is the reflection in the mirror. Look at yourself with the intent to see your Inner Being in there! Gaze until you feel that awareness of ME in there.
18.. Stop seeking love of Self and start noticing that it’s Love that is Self! Think of it as loving me vs being the me who loves.
19.. Rampage appreciation – It’s easy to love that one, and that one and that one and that one and that one! The focal point of your love doesn’t matter, it could be that one or that one or that one or that one. If you are enjoying eating this meal, it doesn’t matter that you are not simultaneously eating the one over there.
20.. When you are flowing love randomly, that is who you are! Acknowledge it and demand it of yourself. Look for it everywhere you go!
21.. You are LOVE! When you flow love, you will feel what a stable being you are. You will no longer feel off balance. Everything this has to do with you is within your control.
22.. Looking for love to be focused AT you is somewhat lackful. We want you to feel love more and more and it is easier to love elsewhere. The quest for self-love is going down the rabbit hole. Look instead for the part of yourself that DOES love, and cultivate that. Soon you will be saying, “I love the feeling of loving you. I don’t care if you love me or not.” And when you get there, the Universe will line you up with all those who are a match to loving!
23.. Look for reasons to love everywhere. Make peace with where you are. We see you loving yourself often already, and you are absolutely lovable!
接受对方当前的存在 四月 14, 2006
Abraham-Hicks : Message: Getting there… (cruise notes part 5):
1.. As a therapist, you have to make peace with where your clients are. If you have a desire to take them anywhere else, your energy is split. Where you are is where you are, and if you receive them like that, they will feel you as accepting. That leaves you willing to allow them as much time as possible to move or not even to move. Otherwise you get invested and feel frustrated if they do not move, and then they move YOU downward.
为什么我们要共同创造？ 四月 14, 2006
如果我们的意愿与信念调和一致，我们就配合吧。如果我们的意愿与信念出现分歧，那我们就各走各路吧。
共同创造的出发点是有你很好，共同创造的出发点不是没你不行……
共同创造的目的是要让喜悦加倍，共同创造的目的不是完成非完成不可的事情。因为没有这样的一件事情是你非完成不可的……
保持单纯的聚焦，聚焦在自己想要的，让吸引定律带给你与你共振和鸣的人，而不是需要互相迁就的人。
在自私的前提之下互相成全，是共同创造的最佳境界！在双方都做回自己的情况之下成事，而不是在互相迁就彼此的情况之下成事，才是最美的。
集体决策奈你不何 四月 13, 2006
21. Even if you had a committee of 100, and 99 were bickering.
You could ignore the committee, think about what you want and why
you want it, while the others were still doing something
different. If you aligned your energy and didn’t pay attention
to them, you’d get what you want.
Notes from Abe, MD, 5/3/03, part 1
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Abraham-Hicks/message/30350
我跟人配合的感觉清单 四月 9, 2006
1。做我喜欢而擅长的事情
2。有钱有闲，待遇丰厚
3。顺心自主，从容自在
4。喜悦、和谐、启发性、高产能
5。你情我愿，做回自己，皆大欢喜
6。对等配合，平起平坐
7。放权
