1.. As a therapist, you have to make peace with where your clients are. If you have a desire to take them anywhere else, your energy is split. Where you are is where you are, and if you receive them like that, they will feel you as accepting. That leaves you willing to allow them as much time as possible to move or not even to move. Otherwise you get invested and feel frustrated if they do not move, and then they move YOU downward.
接受对方当前的存在 四月 14, 2006