12.. Seek incremental improvement, there is no such thing as a quantum leap. Perceive the world through a self that loves. The only hindrance to self love is coming yourself and what you want with others and what they want. Loving yourself is not giving a rip what others think. Train yourself to look for something that feels better, one step at a time.
13.. When another loves you, and teaches you love, they are a match to their Inner Being, and they flood pure positive energy all over you. Then you *need* them to attend to you to feel good, and they will let you down every time.
14.. It feels good to BE loved, but nothing feels better in all the Universe than to love. Fascination is the same vibration as love. Appreciation is the same vibration as love. As you appreciate, we join you in your appreciation. You’d have no feeling at all without your relationship to Source.
15.. When you look outside yourself for love, you try to find connected ones. Then you look and don’t find them connected, and you train yourself to NOT love yourself through their eyes.
16.. Love this rug and these flowers and this fresh air and this ship and your dinner, and this hair clip and spent time watching how flexible your fingers are. Tune yourself to the easy and obvious things to love and appreciate. Tune into things moment after moment that are easiest to love.
17.. The hardest one to love is the reflection in the mirror. Look at yourself with the intent to see your Inner Being in there! Gaze until you feel that awareness of ME in there.
18.. Stop seeking love of Self and start noticing that it’s Love that is Self! Think of it as loving me vs being the me who loves.
19.. Rampage appreciation – It’s easy to love that one, and that one and that one and that one and that one! The focal point of your love doesn’t matter, it could be that one or that one or that one or that one. If you are enjoying eating this meal, it doesn’t matter that you are not simultaneously eating the one over there.
20.. When you are flowing love randomly, that is who you are! Acknowledge it and demand it of yourself. Look for it everywhere you go!
21.. You are LOVE! When you flow love, you will feel what a stable being you are. You will no longer feel off balance. Everything this has to do with you is within your control.
22.. Looking for love to be focused AT you is somewhat lackful. We want you to feel love more and more and it is easier to love elsewhere. The quest for self-love is going down the rabbit hole. Look instead for the part of yourself that DOES love, and cultivate that. Soon you will be saying, “I love the feeling of loving you. I don’t care if you love me or not.” And when you get there, the Universe will line you up with all those who are a match to loving!
23.. Look for reasons to love everywhere. Make peace with where you are. We see you loving yourself often already, and you are absolutely lovable!